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Couples Communication Counseling
The work that I do with couples is very effective. In 3 hours, we figure out your communication dynamic, the deeper needs beneath your words and actions, and how to compassionately get your own needs met. Unlike regular therapy, you do not have to return week after week.

Clients claim that this work gets rid of the "Middle Mad Part" that used to arise in their previously unhealthy communication dynamic.

You will discover if you are auditory, visual or kinesthetic in the conscious, subconscious or unconscious. We will discuss how these different types of awareness function in the different levels of consciousness. We will note how you connect to others, how you problem solve and how you connect to your soul and ''repressed stuff.''

This session will help you:
1. Move into an appreciation of how we and those we love are ''put together,'' how we differ and how our needs and perspectives differ.
2. Move from judgment or assumed offense to understanding and curiousity.
3. Use tools for better communication, understanding and problem solving.
4. Understand why, during times of conflict, we either need to get away or talk about it and what happens when we can't.
5. Understand the difference between an issue and the problems caused by the communication dynamic used to deal with the issue.
6. Appreciate your differences and help you honor your own needs while honoring your partners needs as well.

One 3 hr session is very powerful. You will leave with tools for being present to yourself and each other and for more respectful, honest and compassionate communication so that you both feel loved, respected and able to grow in your relationship. In my experience, there is no better work you can do for a happier life for yourselves and your children.
Please know that I do not turn away clients. I will negotiate a price or do an exchange or a combination of both. However, please also know that the rate I offer $50/hr is 1/2 (or less) the going rate for counseling.
It is up to you to decide if you are committed to doing the work.
If you have any questions, or would like to set up an appointment,
please call or email me at (231) 922-9699  jchai@charter.net